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Knowing where you stand ...

we spent every day together for five months. on my days off from work, i would go and sit in his living room and watch TV until it was time for him to go to work. then i would return when he came home....

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When SHE doesn't like you ...

she had been giving me the stank face for about 10 minutes. normally i would have beat a chick's face in for gawking that long, but i had to restrain myself. the young lady scowling at me happened to...

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Look at what I found

as i was entertaining a 4 year old today, i discovered a story i wrote a few years ago. it is not only a testimony about my relationships with men but one of the reasons i started this blog. this very...

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Let's do this right this time

I started this blog a long time ago with no idea of what it would become or what I would do with it. I had no real intentions, I just wanted to write about my relationships with men. I was hoping that...

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Your life is your own

I had a conversation with a friend and he asked the question, "At what point does your life become your own?" I had to sit back and really think about the answer to that question. I am a grown woman...

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Say NO to Reindeer Games

please read the following quotes carefully:"Most women are highly competitive by nature, and it seems that men have an innate ability to bring out their most competitive streak, without even meaning...

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I likes ya and I wants ya

i am the queen of the non verbals. i wrote a four part series on flirting. for heavens sake, i taught people how to use their feet to flirt with men. so i will say that i am pretty good at the flirting...

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What you say & what you do: They don't match

he said that he didn't want a relationship, but he wanted to do relationship things. he said the relationship stuff was what he missed most, but he didn't want a girlfriend. OKAY. so what are we doing?...

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Ka RahTay - Jailbirds ain't loyal

Dear Karrueche, I will not misspell your name again because I hate when people butcher my name and it is far less difficult. Let me introduce myself, my name is Tam and I am an old school chick who has...

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Girl you can't keep running ...

i am a runner.no i don't run marathons, half marathons or even 5K's. in my defense, it kinda hurts when i try to run. but that's not the type of running i am talking about.when i was getting my first...

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Actions speak louder than words?

"actions speak louder than words""i can show you better than i can tell you""show me don't tell me""i don't trust words, i trust actions"i hear this so often, but i don't really believe that it's true....

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Sex: Some of y'all are doing it wrong

i have been threatening to write a blog about sex, but didn't really want to dedicate the time to it.but lately as i have perused Twitter, i have seen some very disturbing sexual theories being tossed...

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The First Date: To Sex or Not to Sex

i have never (technically) had sex on the first date. that doesn't mean that i have not wanted to do it, but i always stop myself. let me take you through my thought process.me: lordt he looks...

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Penis People Points - Exclamations

this week i have a male guest writer speaking on a topic that most women have questions about: men and the need for multiple partners. please let me know how you feel about this post. moving forward...

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Dead Horse Beating: It's all about the numbers

i am starting a new segment on my blog called Dead Horse Beating. in these posts, i will cover all the topics that have been discussed ad nauseum. so why not continue murdering the horse? yeah because...

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Courting: A thing of the past?

when searching for images associated with courting, all i found were old ass paintings with men kissing women's hands, men giving women flowers or men giving women fruit. you know i exploded with...

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Dead Horse Beating: Size does matter

my homie saw a casual encounters ad on Craigslist that read something like this:“Looking for real niggas with 10 inches or bigger. If you don’t have 10 inches don’t even holla at me.” of course i am...

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I love you ...

if you have been reading my blog for a minute, you know about the Man from God. for you newbies, he was a guy i went on one date with. and the reason for the one date was his need to express a...

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Don't put them all in one basket....

i was taught a phrase early on in life. "Never put all your eggs in one basket." i guess this was my mother's way of telling me not to be so enthralled with one guy that i may miss out on another one...

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Tough Love: Being a New England Patriots fan

*Most of you know that I am currently pursuing a degree in Writing. This is an essay that I had to write for my class. It is about my love for the New England Patriots. I hope you enjoy* The glass...

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